The Pursuit of Awesome with Charlie Harary

Taking Extreme Ownership

Charlie Harary discusses how focusing on others' issues when we get frustrated disempowers us and leads us to blaming. Our job is to grapple with, own and embrace challenges and to fix ourselves, not to actually overcome challenges and fix others.

 

The Prism of Abundance

Charlie Harary discusses looking at the world through the lens of giving. This creates a feeling of abundance and blessing. Those feelings empower us to seek out responsibilities and opportunities for giving.

 

How To Channel Stress

Intermittent stress and chronic upheaval require different coping strategies. Learn how to transform stress into power in times of uncertainty.

Life is Virtual Reality

Charlie Harary discusses the trap of taking the step of being bigger for a time, then waiting for the other person to step up as well. If we approach our challenges as a virtual-reality "game" custom-made by G-d for our growth, we can see how we win by rising above.

Becoming Bigger

Charlie Harary discusses how consistently behaving in a being-bigger-people way is real leadership and becomes the style that others will follow.

Daily Boost Friday Q&A: Being Bigger, Rising Above It

Charlie Harary takes your questions and discusses how ignoring negativity and being positive toward others frees from their drama and leaves us space to be givers.

Unadulterated Giving

Charlie Harary discusses how trying to project what's in another person's head is doomed to failure. If we keep our relationships simple, focused only on giving, they will be much more fulfilling.

Don't Waste Your Power

Charlie Harary discusses how we burn energy judging others based on facial expressions and body language. Most of the time, what's really happening has nothing to do with us.

If They Don't Say It, You Don't Think It

Charlie Harary discusses how to translate every-day emotions to every-day life. Our minds are programmed for survival. When we re-program them to assume the best and focus on the positive, we rise above instinctual behavior and free ourselves from negativity.

Externalize, Don't Internalize

Charlie Harary discusses the importance of treasuring our thoughts. By guarding our minds against external circumstances, we protect ourselves from others' negativity.